Monday, September 14, 2015

Why I’m proud I still write romance novels






When my first child, a son, was born, I decided to stay home with my precious baby, but I soon found that I needed more than childcare and housework to thrive. So, I decided to write a book. And not just any book, a romance.

My mother-in-law advised me that I should be stimulating her precious grandbaby instead of neglecting him by writing a romance novel.

Five years later Silhouette Books published my first contemporary romance, Wild Lady (Men of the West Bk 1), which I have recently acquired the rights to and have updated for modern readers. I updated as well, The Fairy Tale Girl (Men of the West Bk 1).
                                                      Wild Lady (Men of the West Bk 1)

Why romance? Why did I spend my life spinning tales about love while my husband, a doctor, did much more serious work that included saving lives? My girlfriends told me I should write something worthwhile. I said like what? They suggested, “We have a terrible problem with obesity and diabetes in our community. Why don’t you write something that would help those people?” But I don’t have diabetes, and I’m not an expert in the field, and I had no idea how to help them.


In a world filled with all sorts of pressing problems… female oppression… immigrants fleeing lawless societies…I write love stories for adult women. Many people criticize this genre as being silly and shallow and formulaic, but I feel the hunger for love in the human heart is far from shallow. Indeed, it’s a universal need.

Love elevates one’s sense of worth. It is positive emotion that can bring out the best in human beings. Often longer lasting solutions to problems can be found through love, inspiration, negotiation, compromise, cooperation, nurture, education, and empathy rather than by the use of force. Not that individuals don’t have to stand up for what they believe when attacked. Because they do. We call that tough love.

The best romance novels are about women who solve problems and grow, about women who prove their worth to their heroes, who by the end of the books, come to see them as equal if not superior partners.

Women, who read romances, are juggling careers, marriages, elderly relatives and children. They live in a stressful, constantly changing world. What better thing to read than positive stories that recharge their souls and fill with them with courage. I am proud of what I write and the women I write for.

p.s. My mother-in-law would be proud, too, if she were alive and could see how happy and successful her grandson is despite his iffy start caged in a playpen at his mother’s feet while she penned those sexy love scenes.
  

Wednesday, February 4, 2015

Why I Love RWA, Harlequin and Caro Carson

Many years ago I was an aspiring writer in Orange, Texas struggling to craft a coherent sentence. I didn’t know a single published writer and imagined them to be glamorous goddesses, who lived in Manhattan and lunched with publishers.

After I’d written nearly a million unpublished words, a worried girlfriend, a lab tech, said, “Hey, maybe you should try to meet somebody in the business.” Eventually I attended a writer’s conference in Houston where I met Rita Estrada, Sondra Stafford, and Parris Bonds and become a part of a group of writers who founded Romance Writers of America (RWA), an organization conceived to nourish romance writers, shorten their journey to publication and success, and to support a published community of romance authors.

 Caro Carson Romance Writer

More than thirty years later at an RWA conference after I’d become a multi-published Harlequin author, I met Caro Carson, a younger, unpublished writer. We’d both signed up to volunteer at a luncheon. When we weren’t needed for the event she told me she’d graduated from West Point, had been an officer in the Army and now dreamed of being published by Harlequin. At the time she’d been working to achieve her dream of publication for many years. I admired her more than I can say.

          Caro had a dream.
          She struggled.
          She kept perfecting her craft.
          When she failed to sell a story, she either rewrote it or began another.
          She did this for ten years.

Her story is the story of many beginning writers and that of many giants in the romance publishing industry.

Nobody is born published. Romance writers who succeed are smart, determined women who keep working and keep perfecting their craft until they break out. If they don’t believe in themselves, nobody else ever will either.

Since she published, I have read Caro’s Doctor, Soldier, Daddy, as well as the first two books in her Texas Rescue Series:  Not Just a Cowboy and A Texas Rescue Christmas.
 Doctor, Solider, Daddy - Caro Carson

 Not Just a Cowboy - Caro Carson
I have loved every one of her books. Caro writes about real people with real problems. Her characters connect almost immediately on a soul-deep, authentic level. Caro writes about the kind of love many women can only dream of finding. Books like Caro’s will nourish their dream.

Caro specializes in heroines who are intelligent professionals like her main character in Not Just a Cowboy.  If you like virgin-romances, I was blown away by the tenderness in her truly touching virgin-sex scene in A Texas Rescue Christmas. The hero in this book may see himself as handicapped or damaged, but his talents at loving with a true heart make him an unforgettable character.   I wish Caro Carson was a stock I could invest in because she is definitely a rising star.

 A Texas Rescue Christmas - Caro Carson

I love RWA because it supports writers like Caro have faith in themselves and hold onto their dreams. And because it gave me the opportunity to meet her.

I love Harlequin for bringing this talented author to its worldwide readership. Since I belong to that readership, I became her fan.

Being a writer is about constantly re-inventing oneself. So, even though I've been a writer for a long time, I feel like a beginner who has a big dream, a writer who's willing to work and to fail and to continue working--all in the hope I'll succeed one day.

Like Caro, I’m beginning a new career, only this time in self-publishing. Once again I’m a beginner who has a big dream, a writer who’s willing to work and to fail and to continue working—all in the hope I’ll succeed one day.

I salute your talent, Caro. I’m so glad you had the courage and determination to believe in your writing ability long enough to become the wonderful storyteller you are. This wasn't a selfish battle. Romance readers everywhere who are inspired by love stories like yours will be the richer for it. Writers everywhere will also be inspired by your dedication, talent, and success.

With only a handful of published books to your credit, I am in awe of the excellence, originality, and heart-warming quality of your love stories.

You inspire me to work harder at my own craft, and I’m sure you will inspire other writers.
I dedicate this blog to all struggling writers who have big dreams like you and equally beautiful stories to tell.
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Looking for more romance stories? Check out Ann Major's recent publication, HER PREGNANCY SECRET. A thrilling story of innocence, betrayal, and love that will have you gripping from beginning to end. 
 Her Pregnancy Secret - Ann Major